submitted by ChasingDevon:
“I really hate white people, but only sometimes and only the really bad intentionally racist ones, which not all white people are. When I go into a store, the white security guards follow me around because I am black, but let’s not forget that not every white guard…
Literally all I want is for you to not use the phrase “I really hate white [or any other race of] people” in the first place. You don’t have to sing the praises of every not-racist white person every time you discuss the issue of race (in fact, please don’t). It’s simply unfair and unnecessary to create a blanket statement implicating all white people for participating in a specific racist action in the first place when there are plenty of other more accurate ways to phrase an argument about “white oppression” or whatever. With something as nuanced as the problem of race in the modern world, you owe it everyone to specify about whom exactly you are talking.
this particular brand of “tone argument” (yes, that’s what you just pulled here) [and also this] is particularly maddening.
Here’s what you need to realise about anti-racism: It’s not about you. It’s not about your feelings as a white person. What you just said is that you’ll entertain the idea of listening to POC talk about ways they’ve been fucked over by whiteness, white privilege, and white people as long as they don’t hurt your feelings.
To put it another way: you’re saying that not having your feelings hurt is more important to you than actually trying to understand PoC’s experiences of enduring racism—which is, itself, perpetuating racism. No, maybe you didn’t partake in whatever act of racism we’re talking about in this very moment, but if you’re white, then you are benefiting from the systemic racism that allowed it to happen, whether you like it or not.
Yes, listening to the ways that your privilege fucks over other people is uncomfortable. Yes, it can be embarrassing & lead to feelings of guilt, but it is not up to People of Color to censor ourselves to spare your delicate fee-fees. If you truly want to be considered anti-racist, you need to deal with those feelings with other white people & not add to the burden of PoC’s experiences of racism by saying that you won’t take us seriously unless we’re ‘nice’ about the emotional & psychological violence that we endure simply by being PoC in a racist society.
So literally, all I want you to do is understand that being anti-oppression (of any kind) is about understanding how the oppressed group is affected & then countering those systems, activities, mindsets, etc. It’s not about you being comfortable, because if you’re doing it right, it’s not going to be comfortable. Period.
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next time one of my fellow white fems derails...discussion about appropriation. eta:...
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ALWAYS REBLOG. But! This was originally written by Dumb Things White People Say. Let’s please credit accordingly.
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